Hi! I'm
I help parents navigate divorce, co-parenting, and dating – through the lens of pleasure, power, and joy.
If you’re in the thick of it right now, you’re not alone.
Here’s how I got here – and why I do what I do.
“A what now?!”
Six months into my separation, I was heartbroken, exhausted, and completely unanchored.
My newborn was snuggled into a sling on my chest. My toddler was with her dad.
And I was telling a friend how sex – or really, the lack of sex – had played a huge part in my marriage breaking down.
After listening to me explain how I was obviously broken because I'd been uninterested in sex for years, she said:
“It sounds like you might need a sex coach.”
I had no idea what that even meant.
But I was intrigued, because I knew I couldn't keep going like this, or any future relationships would be doomed – just like my marriage had been.
So I booked an intro call. I spoke freely to this complete stranger about my marriage… and then froze with embarrassment the moment the topic turned to s-e-x (you know, the thing I called her for!)
But after just one conversation with this woman, I knew it was my next step forward. And even though I was terrified, I handed over what was left of my maternity leave savings – and said yes (to myself).
That one “yes” changed everything.
What I thought would be about sex turned out to be about everything.
It was the first time I’d felt truly safe, truly seen, and truly empowered to look inward.
I didn’t always love what I found. (Understatement!)
But I kept showing up. I did the work. I met myself – my body, my boundaries, my beliefs.
Everything started changing. How I was showing up in the world. How I was with my kids. At work. With my friends. It was just... different. Lighter. Better. Freer.
And somewhere in the middle of all that messy, painful, beautiful growth, people started saying:
"Have you ever thought about being a coach?"
Eventually, I listened. I trained. I hired another coach to teach me coaching. I kept going deeper.
Because I didn’t want to waste what I’d learned – I wanted to help others navigate this wild, painful, powerful season too.
Before all of this, I spent 12 years in corporate accounting. Senior roles. High stakes. Endless spreadsheets.
It taught me a LOT – but not how to listen to my body, my heart, or my truth.
Leaving that world was a huge decision – a decision to follow what lit me up.
To trust that what I’d lived through could become a source of strength – for me and for others.
Now, I bring all of that rigour and strategic thinking to something much more personal:
Helping people come back to themselves.
I believe emotional healing doesn’t have to be all heavy.
That even in the messiest moments – divorce, heartbreak, co-parenting chaos – there can still be joy.
That the most powerful work is the most personal.
And that we’re allowed to turn our pain into something beautiful.
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about self-trust. Boundaries. Play. And radical self-love.
I live and work by five core values:
Love – am I acting from a place of love, for myself and for others?
Integrity – am I being honest, ethical and real?
Curiosity – am I open to going deeper, exploring what’s beneath the surface?
Courage – am I daring greatly? Choosing truth even when it’s hard?
Joy – am I making space for pleasure, for fun, for the full-body YES?
And my purpose that drives it all:
This is what guides everything I do – how I build my business, my client sessions, in my own life.
A separation.
A shaky co-parenting dynamic.
A fear that you’ll never feel happy – or sexy – or whole – again.
I get it. I’ve lived it!
And I’ve walked alongside so many others who’ve been in the thick of it too.
This work isn’t about pretending it’s easy.
It’s about finding your way back to yourself – one brave, messy, beautiful step at a time.
I’m Lindsey – a Divorce and Intimacy Coach, a single mum of two (VERY energetic!) girls, a Wisconsin expat living in Sheffield, and a firm believer in turning pain into power.
I like big earrings, bright colours, country music – and finding the spark of joy even in the chaos.
If something in my story speaks to you,
I’d love to hear yours someday. 💛