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⚡The Divorce Vibes Blog⚡

Real talk on divorce, dating, and co-parenting—with a healthy dose of pleasure, power, and joy to guide you through it all! Because we don't have to do divorce like the "old days"—we get to do it OUR way. We get to learn from it, heal our sh*t, and move forward as our favorite versions of ourselves. And most importantly—you don't have to do it alone!

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The Divorce Basics I Swear By (and Often Forget Myself)

    These basic tools carried me through divorce heartbreak and still ground me today. Simple, powerful practices that change the dial in your divorce.
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    How to Put Your Kids First in Co-Parenting, Without Losing Yourself in the Process

      Learn how to co-parent with intention, without losing yourself in the process. A real-life story about choosing your kids, your values, and your sanity.
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      Feeling Furious During Co-Parenting Negotiations? Here’s How to Handle Your Emotions and Find Common Ground

        Imagine this: you're in the middle of "discussing" (negotiating) changes to your co-parenting schedule and the red mist descends. You are so mad you can barely see straight, but you need to find a way through this because you do actually need to reach decisions. What do you do? You read this blog post, that's what!
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        From "Ex" to "Co-Parent": Why Shifting Your Mindset (and Language) is Key to Successful Co-Parenting

          You know the saying "when one door closes, another one opens"? Well, the same thing happened when you broke up. Your relationship with your ex ended, and your relationship with your co-parent began. And making that distinction between "ex" and "co-parent" is crucial for moving forward in a healthy way.
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          How Do I Know When I’m Ready To Start Dating Again After Divorce?

            Divorce can leave scars, and entering the dating world for the first time post-divorce can be a scary thing! How do you know when you're ready?! I'll share my story with you...
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            How to Start Moving Forward After Separation or Divorce

              After the initial shock of separation has passed, you might be left totally lost. Here are 3 actionable steps you can take every day to move forward in your relationship with yourself, your kids, and your co-parent.
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              My Husband Just Asked for a Divorce! Now What the F*ck Do I Do?!

                When the "divorce bomb" gets dropped, we all react in different ways, but chances are one way or another it sends you reeling. If your husband asked for a divorce and you don't know where to turn, start here.
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                How to Handle Post-Divorce Loneliness: 3 Ways to Turn Alone Time Into Growth

                  Post-divorce loneliness can hit like a tidal wave—but it doesn’t have to drag you under. Here are 3 actionable ways to turn your alone time into opportunities for connection, growth, and self-love.
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                  10 Tips for Navigating Christmas After Divorce

                    Is this your first Christmas post-divorce? Or maybe you’re looking to make this one a little easier? I’ve got you! Here are my top 10 tips for handling the next couple weeks:
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                    Standing in Your Power this Christmas: Co-Parenting with Confidence

                      Owning your power means respecting your needs while acknowledging others have theirs, too. But what does that actually look like at Christmas?
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                      Divorced Christmas? Here’s How We Handle the Co-Parenting Logistics: Schedules, Gifts, and Concerts Galore!

                        How we've handled co-parenting Christmas logistics - schedules, gift, school events, and more!
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                        Co-Parenting Challenges: When Your Ex Introduces a New Partner to Your Kids

                          Your ex wants to introduce their new partner to your kids and you HATE it. But here's the thing: it's not up to you to stop it. Your best bet? Focus on you, and finding your own peace.
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                          About me

                          Hi, I'm Lindsey! I'm a Divorce and Intimacy Coach, and I coach people through divorce, dating and co-parenting, all with a foundation of pleasure, power and joy!

                          Or as someone recently described me/my work - "divorce, but fun!"

                          I combine my training as a trauma-informed coach with a certification in Energetics and my personal divorce experience in personalised 1:1 coaching so that you can cultivate a happiness so deep you have to pinch yourself that it’s yours!

                          Check out the rest of my website for ways to work with me or come hang out with me on social media!

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